haircut.....

why is it so hard to choose a new hair style???? i decided for my 30 lb loss goal to get a foil and a haircut...my hair is just tooo long, i wear it up in a clip everyday, what is the sense of having it past my shoulders????
why can't i find a picture of a cut that i have had or on someone else that i just would love on me????
i have brought this picture with me in the past to my stylist and i even think she did a variation of this cut on me....i always think a cut will look good on me and then it never looks like the picture....i just want a fun and easy style that doesn't take much time or effort in the morning....hmmmmm how come what is on our head is so much harder to decide about than what we put in our face?